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Living Miracles: Stories of Hope from Parents of Premature Babies
by Kimberly Powell &
Kim Wilson

Life on the Reflux Roller Coaster
Life on the Reflux Roller Coaster
by Roni Maclean
  

The Pregnancy Bed Rest Book       
The Pregnancy Bed Rest Book by Amy E Tracy, Richard H Schwarz                    

Preemie Parents Companion  

The Preemie Parents Companion: The Essential Guide to Caring for Your Premature Baby in the Hospital, at Home, and Through the First Years by Susan L Madden M.S, William Sears MD, Jane E Stewart MD
              

 

Reprinted with permission from John Zakour
A Man's Guide to Pregnancy: How to Live With a Pregnant Person
by John Zakour

Introduction
Upon browsing the bookshelves I noticed that the vast majority of books on pregnancy are heavily slanted to the women's side. This is all fine and good and perfectly understandable but it does take two to make a baby and most men are at least twice as confused by the whole process as women. So I decided to help even the odds a bit by writing: A Man's Guide to Pregnancy. The purpose of this is to help a man better understand all the changes his pregnant wife is going through. Hopefully this understanding will make the experience much more enjoyable for all parties involved thus allowing the man to live longer.

It is also my goal to keep this handy guide short and sweet. As, being a man, I realize that most of us have a rather short attention span when it comes to this sort of thing. Plus, to keep it interesting I try to use as many sports and remote control references as possible.

Note: for the ease of not driving myself crazy I use the word wife. This not met to be a moral trip or anything. I just felt it was easier to write the word wife all the time then interchanging: woman who are with child, mates, chosen one, or simply your woman.

What's Going On
Your wife is pregnant. To put it in it's simplest terms: she has a real live little person growing at a fantastic speed inside her body.

In the span of roughly nine months this baby will grow from the size of one little cell (really small) to around the size of a watermelon (really big when you think about it). In between time: hormones fire off, chemicals interact and this little cell grows arms, legs, organs and everything else a baby needs to be a living, breathing, little person that is going to be wrecking the car before you know it.

You're probably thinking, "So, how does this effect me? After all my wife's the one who does all the work. I just have to sit around and hope the birth doesn't conflict with my tee off time." But if truth be known, you actually have the hardest job of all, you have to live with a pregnant person.

This means you're living with your own personal Sybil. In other words, sometimes it is as if you're living with Sleeping Beauty. Sometimes it will be like you're living with the incredible-if-it's-not-moving-eat-it-woman. Other times it will be like living with a scarier version of that girl from the Exorcist. You never know who your wife is going to be from one millisecond to another. All you can do is be ready to apologize and duck a lot.


About the author: 

John Zakour is a web coordinator/freelance writer/part time graduate student in Human Behavior who use to be an emergency medical technician. He is qualified to write a book such as this as he survived the very experience he is writing about. Visit his Web site at http://www.ss-24-7.com or E-mail him at jmz5@nysaes.cornell.edu. John is also the author of The Plutonium Blonde (now available all over the place!) For more information visit his GeekToons site.

Copyright© 2000 John Zakour


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